Sunday, October 13, 2013

Christopher Columbus thought the Native people were the "best and gentlest people in the world."


"I ordered that everyone [the natives] be treated honorably because they are the best and gentlest people in the world..."
-Christopher Columbus

This is my blog. I try to keep it sweet, simple and inspirational. I try not the rant (too much lol) I want to present things to uplift so that you might be inspired in your home making, your home schooling and in your walk with the Lord.

It is on this note that I present a Columbus Day post. Columbus has become a very controversial character in history. Some adore him but it seems as if these days most people think he was anywhere from very bad to completely evil.

All the information and misinformation had me confused for years. First, I liked him, then I hated him. He's the perfect fall guy for the current social trend to hate all things Christian, white and male.

So who was he? Saint or sinner? Before I could present a Columbus day narrative to my children I HAD to know the truth, or as close to the truth as I could reasonably get.



So here it is. My best assessment of Christopher Columbus and I must say that where my research took me was not somewhere I expected to go.

I went into this project thinking, "OK, he was probably bad but was he that bad? You know, ear cutting, slave taking, cold blooded murderer that some pieces would make him out to be- bad?" and I ended up coming out at the other end of my research thrilled to have studied him!

I can honestly say he truly was a very brave, smart and faithful man. His journal logs were so inspiring that I've decided to make his entire log book mandatory reading for my boys as they come of age.

I would even venture to call him a "hero."

I know that's a bold statement in today's world. No doubt what happened AFTER Columbus was terrible for the Native peoples. As the Spanish came and eventually the migration to North America of the Europeans, millions of Natives lost their lives to European disease and slave labor.

Despite the fact that millions of Europeans found refuge in a New World and had their lives saved from religious prosecution and death in Europe, it cannot excuse what happened to the Natives of Central and North America and even though Columbus was not really the first to "discover" these areas nor did he personally exploit them (he died in poverty) others used Columbus' research and discoveries in an indefensible way.

Not all of those indefensible actions, however grave, can be laid upon the shoulders of a man who died only 14 years after he found this New World.

So let's get some of the "ugly" out in the open. Columbus is accused of horrible acts. He is accused of enslaving the native population onto farming plantations during his 3rd visit to the islands. Men, women and children died by the thousands during his reign as governor of this territory.

Did those thousands die of cruel treatment, or did they die of disease? Some most likely died of cruel treatment during his governorship and we know countless people lost their lives to European diseases. This is fact.

What is not fact however is how Columbus or his brothers, who were ruling with him, treated the natives. All of the negative accounts of Columbus' treatment of the natives comes from, or was gathered by, one man. Just one and he was not unbiased.

His name was Francisco de Bobadilla. Bobadilla was sent to check up on Columbus. After only a few days Bobadilla had Columbus and his brothers returned to Spain in chains without a chance to offer a defense.

Christopher wrote to a friend at court...

         "It is now seventeen years since I came to serve these princes with the Enterprise of the Indies. They made me pass eight of them in discussion, and at the end rejected it as a thing of jest. Nevertheless I persisted therein ... Over there I have placed under their sovereignty more land than there is in Africa and Europe, and more than 1,700 islands ... In seven years I, by the divine will, made that conquest. At a time when I was entitled to expect rewards and retirement, I was incontinently arrested and sent home loaded with chains ... The accusation was brought out of malice on the basis of charges made by civilians who had revolted and wished to take possession on the land ... I beg your graces, with the zeal of faithful Christians in whom their Highnesses have confidence, to read all my papers, and to consider how I, who came from so far to serve these princes ... now at the end of my days have been despoiled of my honor and my property without cause, wherein is neither justice nor mercy"

Once in Spain Columbus and his brothers went before the King's court and  they were acquitted of the charges. They were allowed to return to the islands but Columbus could not be governor any longer. Meanwhile Bobadilla had established himself as governor.

So, what are the facts here? Did Bobadilla have reason to arrest Columbus? Yes, he wanted Columbus' job and he got it! Did the King and Queen have reason to acquit Columbus yet not reinstall him as governor? What kind of verdict was that anyway -he was guilty enough not to be governor but too innocent for jail?

Seems odd.

But you see, under the Capitulation's of Santa Fe, the Spanish Crown owed Columbus 10% of the wealth found in the New World. So, of course when he asked for his retirement money, an old man with severe arthritis, they said "Nope, sorry, remember, we had to let you go."

Convenient.

Like an old time cop drama "He was just two weeks away from retirement!!!"



But why when reading this history do I give Columbus so much benefit of the doubt? Because I read his logs. Whether or not he acted perfectly in every situation after reading his logs upon his first discovery of the New World I can safely say I know what his intent was.

He wanted to convert them, not kill them.

You see Columbus was a deeply religious man who had two goals, spread his faith and get gold for the court who funded his trip.

"But maybe he was trying to convert them through force?" some might ponder.

Columbus wrote in his logs on October 12, 1492 "I know they [the natives] are people who can be made free and converted to our Holy Faith more by love than by force."

In his logs he was always looking for gold but he had nothing but love and honor for the native people.

He wrote, "They are very well-built people, with handsome bodies and fine faces." October 12, 1492

"They traded everything with goodwill, but it seems to me that they have very little and are poor in everything. I warned my men to take nothing from the people without giving something in exchange." October 12, 1492

Columbus gave strict orders to his men to treat the natives with the utmost respect. When they rowed ashore to an island and found that the villagers had fled their homes Columbus ordered his men not to touch or take anything from the Native's abandoned homes.

"I ordered that everyone [Natives] be treated honorably because they are the best and gentlest people in the world..."

"I gave them [Natives] glass beads, brass rings and hawks' bells, not because they asked for anything but because it seemed to me to be the right thing to do..." December 21, 1492

"...I do not believe there is a better people or a better country. They love their neighbors as themselves, and they have the softest and gentlest voices in the world and are always smiling." December 25, 1492

During his travel among the islands many of the native people told Columbus of some tribes on nearby islands that committed horrible murders, slaughters and were cannibals. They even showed him men from their tribe with chunks of flesh torn from their bodies and told Columbus it was the cannibals who had done it.

Columbus did not believe them and still attempted to visit all the islands and natives that he could on his travels, which to me means two things. First, that Columbus was very brave and second, that there may have been natives in the area that Columbus later had to defend himself against in a violent way.

Perhaps Columbus abandoned his faith and began slaughtering the Natives later in life? Not likely. Records from his son show us that Columbus, who already praised the Lord every few sentences in his early journals, only grew MORE devout and faithful in his advancing age.



Conclusion and citations...

The issue is this: we may never know the full truth of who exactly Columbus was and what role he played in the deaths of the native peoples of America but that is no reason to demonize Columbus. There are far more historical evidences of his virtues than of anything else.

I do invite you however to read Columbus' personal logs. You can find them in The Log of Christopher Columbus by Robert H Fuson, PhD (complied by the National Geographic Columbus Project 1986) from which I derived most of this information. After considering many Columbus resources I found this to be the one which would give the best historical accuracy. I also cited Samuel Eliot Morison, Admiral of the Ocean Sea: A Life of Christopher Columbus p. 576.

Thursday, July 18, 2013

12 Examples of Modern Day Idolatry


Exodus 20:5, "You shall not worship them or serve them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, on the third and the fourth generations of those who hate Me."



I've been thinking a lot about idolatry in our society today. Even though in Acts 15 we are clearly instructed that we are not to commit idolatry we still do. It happens so often that unless we open our eyes and LOOK for it, it seems to pass us by unnoticed. Here are some examples I've been thinking of...

1. Waldorf Education and Graven Images

When studying the Norse myths, the Greek myths, or cultures like Egypt we often have children draw pictures of these stories and their gods. As an alternative you can read the myths and discuss their context culturally and historically but have your children draw pictures of the people from the culture, the architecture, the animals or the landscape instead of the gods.

2. TV and Media

Shows like American Idol are clearly idolatry but watch out for other pop culture icons like Hannah Montana or Justin Bieber. If it's a real person or character played by a human and they are on your children's PJs, or bedding, the "like" of this character may be staying dangerously close to idolatry.

3. Comics and Toys

Comic characters such as Thor are based on pagan gods but others are more subtle. Figures that appear as "all powerful" that insight worship-like attitudes in your child (where they MUST own every thing related to it, they must collect it or they must own "all" of it) I think are best avoided. People have hurt each other in stores over things like Dancing Elmo dolls and Furbies. This is subtle and dangerous idolatry. We should discuss this with our children.

4. Heroes

I caught myself just the other day saying "So-in-so is my idol." Nope, not cool. Gotta knock that off.

5. Statues, Posters and pictures

When we decorate our house what are we decorating it with? It's fine to like movies, stories, characters and art but if they are filling the imagery in your home instead of the imagery of home, family and God then you may be putting your emphasis on the wrong things. Be careful when buying statues for decorating places like gardens. Some examples are Aphrodite, Buddha, Cupid, etc.

6. New Age and Native America Idols

Yoga has some stances which relate to the Sun God, some Tarot cards feature pagan gods as do some necklaces and art on book covers. Native American gods have been reprinted in art, books and logos. While a picture of a buffalo isn't a problem if that buffalo was created, labeled or intended to be the Lakota god Tatanka then it's an idol. Also some people may choose to avoid ceremonial items such as dream catchers or engraved stones.

7. Company Logos

The Starbucks logo is the Goddess Astarte. The Chicago Bulls logo is a red bull (quite Satanic), same with the drink Red Bull. Many liquors feature Roman or Greek gods.

8. Language

"Holy Cow!"

"Great Zeus!"

"By Neptune's beard!"

...and the like. Also our calendar and days of the week is based on Roman gods. When convenient you may wish to use a Jewish calendar.

9. Literature

The Percy Jackson series revolves around the idea that the Greek gods are real and other fictional stories, particularly in the sci fi fantasy genre utilize other gods in their plots.

10. Boy Scouts

Oddly yes, some Boy Scout camps and mascots are named after mythical gods and some badges require the making if things like totem poles.

11. Statue of Liberty, Scales of Justice and other American Symbols

The Statue of Liberty and the Scales of Justice are pagan gods. There are also pagan gods featured on monuments such as Thomas Paine's grave, the Statue of freedom atop the Capital building, the statue of the god Mars in the entrance to the capital building, and the Spirit of Justice in the Great Hall of Justice.

12. Sports

The XFL team the San Francisco demons.
XFL Las Vegas Outlaws is a bull skull with red eyes.
The Rugby team the Melbourne Storm depicts a god-like figure throwing thunder bolts form a cloud. The NCAA Mississippi Valley State Delta Devils logo is a devil.
The NBA Golden State Warriors features a guy wielding power over a thunderbolt.
NCAA Arizona State Sun Devils.
The Utah State Aggies is a bull with a human like body.
NCAA Duke Blue Devils.

Even when sports team logos aren't specifically other gods or devils any logo can be used in a fanatical and idolatrous fashion so caution is needed.



Things I personally don't consider idolatry

Symbols Loosely Associated with Paganism

While the depiction of another god is quite clearly problematic often the symbols are not. Many cultures borrowed symbols from each other and many symbols have modern implications that didn't exist 100 years ago due to movies, books and media. Suns, stars, pentacles, pentagrams, sunstones, spirals, chevrons, fairies, gnomes, trolls, dragons, etc unless depicted specifically as a god are really not a problem in my view and many of these symbols have deep roots in Christo/Judaism.

Harry Potter

Harry Potter does depict witchcraft however no other gods are mentioned and they celebrate Christmas so I think clearly it's not idolatrous.


Wednesday, July 17, 2013

Learning from the Amish

 
About an hour long this is The Secret Life of the Amish and it gives an intimate look into the life of an Amish family who consented to be filmed.

What I learned or remembered....

- Tell your children "God Bless you"
- Honor your husband
- Smile while working hard
- Be self sufficient as much as possible
- If you take time with you children today they will have time to meet your needs in the future
- Life isn't about rules, it's about Christ
- Play with your children
- Sing your children to sleep
- Keep a clean home and enjoy your work


 
 The World's Squarest Teenagers. Several hours long this follows five Amish teenagers touring through England and spending time with "normal" teenagers. I learned soooo much from this one I don't think I could list it all but here are some highlights...

- Education is about teaching the heart of your child to value real things, not whether or not they know the names of celebrities.
- We must teach our children to be apologists for Christ not just shelter them
- Look to the Bible for all things and when in doubt call your mom
- Raise kids who work in a barn and they'll prefer it to video games
- Work, work, work with your children, outside preferably
- When you dress immodestly and cause a man to lust after you in his heart you are part of that adultery that is committed through thought
- You cannot help it if a bird lands on your head (a bad thought) but you can keep it from making a nest (harboring bad thoughts).
- Siblings should stick together and watch out for each other
- Drunk people really do look ridiculous
- Rock  music when played next to plants will kill them, what must it be doing to your body?
- If someone asks you what your favorite part of the Bible is, have a lengthy answer from your intimate knowledge of it and time spent with the scriptures
- Encourage your friends toward righteousness
- Avoid conflict and arguments at all cost but spread the gospel whenever you can

Watch these. Be inspired. Then get up clean and work hard :)

Saturday, July 13, 2013

Spending More Time With My Children



I'm a stay-at-home mom. I also home school, so to say I spend a lot of time with  my children is an understatement LOL

But I still love to find ways to spend more time with them. Recently I looked at my life and decided bedtime needed to be longer. Our normal bedtime routine is PJs, brush teeth, stories and prayers but I decided to add about a half hour of singing songs to that. This means I have less "me" time as it cuts a half hour off my time I have to goof off after they have been put to bed but the memories we are making, the trust and relationship we are building is worth far more to me.

I shouldn't be in a rush to get them in bed. I should be enjoying my time nurturing them. These are moments we can't get back.

Tuesday, June 25, 2013

A Productive Child is a Happy Child

  Children need productive, hard and valuable work to do. In our current society most children spend the ages of two to eighteen just sitting around and killing time waiting to be adults. For most of them when they do hit eighteen they take off like a rocket for good and sometimes for bad trying desperately to fill this aching void inside themselves. Autism doesn't exist in the Amish community and some say it's diet, some say it's a lack of vaccines, and I'm sure those play a role but I think a lot of it is lifestyle. What our society calls mild autism, or sensory issues might just be children not living a valued life full of meaning and close to nature or the symptoms of mild autism might disappear or become lessened when one feels like they are an important member of their community.  As our modern society progresses children are not treated or seen as valuable, productive members of their community and hence they act like it. They are restless, they are bored, they are numb. We have life so easy now it seems like there is little we can find for a child to do to keep them busy and productive.  We might have them make their bed or empty the dishwasher but these things are small time and petty and the child feels that. We aren't relying on them, they aren't needed. We must convince children they are needed in order for their self worth to flourish.  Invest in it a bit. Get them work aprons, work gloves, work shoes if you can. So here are some idea for children to help out around the house.  
Boys
 
Sweeping (rooms, baseboards, porches, garages, etc)
Shoveling (snow, dirt, digging holes, etc)
Feeding animals and/or making food for animals
Move furniture for mom to clean under
Weed
Mow the lawn
Trim the hedges
Haul the garbage
Clean outside cans, tools, pots, storage areas, etc
Polish and sort tools
Simple repairs
Wash the car, vacuum it out, change the oil, check the tires
Build, mend and paint fences and gates
Fertilize and water lawns and plants
Chop wood
Break rocks either to get out of the ground or for landscaping
Polish furniture
Build small useful items like stools, benches, clothes lines, etc.
Mix soil, transplant plants, dig garden beds, lay sod, etc
Wash and wipe down appliances like the fridge, washer and dryer, etc.
Managing finances, anything from a  grocery trip to balancing the check book and paying the bills
Managing, rotating and storing dry goods in your food storage
Polishing shoes
Building and tending a fire
Trimming trees
Whittling useful objects like baby spoons, buttons, toys, etc.
 
 
Girls
 
Planning and preparing family meals
Organizing shopping lists
Baking
Mending and making family clothes
Tending to smaller children
Washing floors, walls and windows
Doing dishes
Organizing cupboards
Laundry, folding, ironing, etc
Clearing the table after a meal
Washing counter tops
Organizing service projects
Reading to younger children
Making the beds, washing and replacing the linens
Hanging the clothes on a line
Feeding and grooming the animals
Vacuuming, sweeping and shampooing floors
Cleaning furniture
Cleaning toilets, bathtubs, fixtures, sinks, etc
Gardening
Helping little ones get dressed, bathed, etc.
Polishing silverware
Dusting
Knitting useful items like potholders, scarves, blankets, etc
Decorating the home to help it look pleasant
Picking out Daddy's clothes for him to wear
Washing table tops, chairs, high chairs, etc.
Cutting up old clothes for rags
Cleaning out cupboards
Beating out rugs
Sewing pillows
Choosing nice music to play in the home
Hosting a friend or family member for tea or dinner
Helping with visit teaching
Service projects
Cleaning the stove and oven
Making dentist and doctors appointments for family members
Organizing photos, scrap books and family history
 
And my favorite chore for either gender, butter churning! You don't need a churn either. Buy a mason jar, fill it with heavy whipping cream and you're ready to shake your way to butter! Burns energy and kids LOOOOOVE making their own butter. It's often cheaper too and fresh butter is heavenly!
 

Daily and weekly rhythm is the key to kids who do their chores willingly.

If your children are young (under 10) you are most likely going to have to do these chores with them in order to get them to do them and do them correctly. Don't shy away from hard work! Your house will be cleaner and more organized and you and your children will save money, sleep better and fight less and most important your children will know they are vital to the function of your family! :)

Wednesday, June 19, 2013

New Town, New Meal Plan



So I've been working on getting together an easy meal plan for our new Southern Utah home. With different prices, different stores, etc. I  am still figuring out what is available here and for the best price.

I also need to spend as little time in the kitchen as possible. I have waaay too much to do so crock pot cooking is a must!

Everything is real food and is gluten free, soy free, sugar free, dairy free, carrageenan free and except for the chicken soup it's also vegetarian. This menu plan costs me about $100-150 a week for my family of 6. Tip: Buy in bulk (Azure or Costco) and shop stores that put older produce on a sale rack and day old bread on sale too.

Monday

B - Ogre porridge
L - Every lunch is the same, all week. Left overs from the night before served with a side salad. I also have the makings for PB and J on hand for when we have to run an errand or have a field trip during lunch time.
D - Chicken soup, slice of toast
S - Cauliflower "popcorn"
Ds - Warm cup of Pero with raw honey

Tuesday

B - Oatmeal for the kiddos, Nutmeal for mom
L - Left overs and salad
D - Pinto beans, salsa, sprinkled with lemon juice served with organic corn chips
S - Apples and peanut butter
Ds - Fried, mashed bananas with maple syrup

Wednesday

B - Southwest scramble (eggs, beans, salsa)
L - Left overs and salad
D - Chickpea, lentil, and veggie stew spiced with tumeric
S - Carrot sticks
Ds - Warm cup of Pero with raw honey

Thursday

B - Ogre porridge
L - Left overs and salad
D - Rice noodle lasagna layered with grated squash, cabbage, carrots, potatoes, tomato sauce, and nut meal left over from making almond milk topped with nutritional yeast
S - Celery and peanut butter
Ds - Chocolate almond milk (sweetened with maple syrup)

Friday

B - Cabbage and potato hash browns
L - Left overs and salad
D - Free night (serve left overs or switch out for a meal found on sale or a meal otherwise skipped this week)
S - Apples and peanut butter
Ds - Pecans with almond milk, maple syrup, vanilla extract and salt (tastes like pecan pie)

Saturday

B - Peanut butter pancakes
L - Left overs and salad
D - Split pea soup
S - Oranges
Ds - Warm cup of Pero and maple syrup

Sunday

B - Oatmeal for the kiddos, Nutmeal for mom
L - Left overs and salad
D -  Baked beans (coconut oil, pinto beans, ketchup, mustard, maple syrup, salt and pepper) over rice
S - Organic corn chips
Ds - Chocolate almond milk

**Note: All my dinners are served with a side of home made sauerkraut for vital probiotics.

Shopping List

Organic, Short grain, Brown Rice
Grass fed Butter or butter alternative
Kale
Lemon juice
Maple Syrup
Almonds
Sea or Himalayan Salt
Gluten free bread
Peanut butter
All fruit Jam
Free range Chicken with bone
Cauliflower
Pero
Raw Honey
Oatmeal
Organic Raisins
Salad greens
Dressing
Bananas
Organic Apples
Pinto beans
Salsa (preservative free, not canned)
Organic corn chips
Free range Eggs
Chickpeas
Lentils
turmeric
Carrots
Rice noodles
Squash (summer or winter)
Cabbage
Organic Potatoes
Organic Tomato sauce (jarred not canned)
nutritional yeast
Organic Celery
Fair trade Chocolate powder
Coconut or olive Oil
Pecans
Vanilla extract
Split peas
Oranges
All natural Ketchup
Pepper
Mustard
Onion
Garlic
Organic Red Peppers
All natural Bullion cubes

Thursday, June 13, 2013

What Preschool Should Really Look Like




We are a culture OBESSED with more, bigger, better faster. So obsessed that we forget how to live and how to blossom. One of the sad aspects of our modern lives is how we thrust our goals, our ambitions on our children before they are ready and thus we quite literally rob them of not only their childhood but also their most crucial, natural, mental development.

We see the commercials about teaching your baby to read and more often we compare our children to those of our neighbors, friends and family. We wonder why our three year old isn't talking at the same level, why our four year old can't spell their name like little Johnny can. We contrast and we judge our children and other children by adult standards of "excellence." Probably more disturbing is that we fear other adults are judging our children and in the case of insensitive friends or family, sometimes they really are.

This can be a special issue for stay at home mothers. Often we allow our children a more natural development. Without preschool attendance they aren't drilled every day into memorizing their ABCs at the age of two. We don't force crayons into their small fingers and make them write their names over and over again. Our children sometimes seem "behind" their preschooling peers but nothing could be further from the truth!

When you see a two year old singing their ABCs, or a three year old writing their name or any other sign of "academic" progress remember this one thing....

That child has not LEARNED anything, they are COPYING something.

We have to get this straight right away. Children under the age of 6 mimic. That's all they can do. They do not have the mental development to strictly "learn" and then apply that learning the way adults or even older children do. They are born with an instinct to copy and whether they are copying their mom, dad, brother, TV or a teacher, before the age of six, they are only COPYING.

 I remember the first time I "came out" as having a five year old who didn't know his ABCs. Intellectually speaking I knew he couldn't really learn symbolic language and processes it yet, his mind was too young. I wanted him to actually learn his ABCs thus improving his cognitive skills, not simply copy his ABCs but I fell pray to social norms that would have said my child was "behind" so I down played it.

One day I thought, to heck with this nonsense, my child is developing appropriately and I am going to be proud! I'm proud that I waited to teach my children until they were mentally ready to really learn and absorb a topic rather then teach them to parrot and mimic like a monkey.

By allowing the academics to wait I allowed more important lessons to be taught. Lessons that can only be taught as a child takes his natural place along side his or her mother in her daily activities within the home and family.

What lessons were my children learning between the ages of two and six?

Cooperation Within a Family Unit

They were learning how to get along with siblings both older and younger. How to take care of younger children and babies as well as how to respect their older siblings and take direction from authority.

Kindness

By my side they helped others both within our family and in our community. They learned the value and importance of giving and serving others the way the Savior would. They developed a heart of compassion and kindness for others.

Strength of Character

They learned who they really were in the absence of peer pressure. They were allowed to follow their strengths and develop their weakness in a supportive environment. Free from the burdens of bullies and trends they reached the age of six with confidence and a sense of self love and appropriate pride.

Polite and Confident Interactions With Others

Instead of sitting in a classroom hearing stories about going to the post office, going fishing, celebrating cultural events, etc. my children were actually out with me doing those things! They learned how to buy a stamp, how to post a letter, how to fish, how to plan and help with events, how to speak to others, etc. in a real world setting.

Responsibility

At the age of two my children are given chores. They learn along side their siblings how to cook, clean, take care of animals, garden, etc. As I type this blog post my ten-year-old and three-year-old are putting clean sheets on the beds and my six-year-old is putting the wash into the dryer.

Managing Stress and Difficult Situations

Under loving family guidance all day my young children learn early how to manage tough times, work out strife and settle arguments.

Listening to the Guidance of the Holy Spirit

One of the most important things I can teach my children is to listen to that still small voice inside of them that will guide them well their whole life. That listening skill starts early and grows strong in a loving family relationship.


So then I pose this question, what is more important? What skill set will serve my children better in the real world and at their future profession? Is it the skill set that allows them to learn cooperation, kindness, character, politeness, confidence, cleanliness, responsibility, stress and conflict management, and listening to the Holy Spirit? Or is it the skill set that teaches them to mimic adult standards of academic success when their brains are too young for it?

Still some moms may be at a loss to know what to "do" with their preschooler at home and want to feel like the activities they are planning are going to nurture the child authentically. So here is a list of ideas....

Cooking
Singing
Visiting friends and family
Dishes
Bathing
Dusting
Sweeping
Polishing
Organizing
Washing windows
Laundry
Pretend Ironing
Tending to baby dolls
Building (blocks, sticks, trains, roads, etc)
Sorting
Yard work
Story telling
Playing in water
Nature walks
Prayer time
Parties / Birthdays
Church or Worship Services
Making and giving gifts
Dramatic play
Painting
Coloring
Reciting poems
Puppets
Games
Decorating
But most important just plain old fashion PLAYING!

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

5 Inside Summer Boredom Busters

 


Some things our family has been doing...

1. Table Top Air Hockey

On a flat, smooth surface such as a table or wood floor, create an 'air hockey' game using a bottle cap as a puck and cups to push the cap back and forth.

2. Big Chess

Save old cardboard rolls from toilet paper or paper towels. Draw chess pieces in them. Create a chess board outside with chalk or use the tiles in a kitchen or bathroom. Also works for checkers so long as you have two different objects to use for each team. Try nature things for checkers too such as stones, river rocks, or pinecones.

3. Big Tic-Tac-Toe

Using painters tape create a tic-tac-toe board on the floor or table. Use bottle caps, old cans, paper plates, pinecones, rocks, pieces of paper, or whatever, for the Xs on Os by taking a permanent marker and drawing "X" and "O" on them.

4. Baking Day.

Have a baking day. Collect three new recipes. Buy the ingredients and have your children help out in the kitchen. (The mess will be worth it!) Kids are more likely to try new things if they make them themselves. It's a great chance to add healthy food to your child's diet. Tell the children they are your tasters and have them review the food.

5. Parlor Games!

Our family is LOVING parlor games. We've been researching them and trying them out. They are so much fun, we often collapse into heaps of giggles! Try a parlor game!





Saturday, June 1, 2013

Wee Baby Girl Turns One

We held a fairy princess tea party today in honor of wee baby girl who isn't so very wee anymore...


1st birthdays are tender and special

 
 
 
 
 
 

We drank peppermint tea among the rose bushes. The boys played badminton and blew bubbles. We ate coconut flour banana bread cake with coconut cream and strawberry icing. We collected canned goods for the food bank in lieu of gifts. We laughed, we chased the sun with our cheeks. We listen to Celtic music at the Tabernacle. We rode the carousel and we played all....day....long.

Momma's so proud of you wee baby girl! You are such an amazing little one. Thank you for blessing our family :)

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

A Video Game into a Parlor Game

We showed up at our local art class and at first I was annoyed. My kids were here for art and they were making Angry Birds? Oh, how I hated the fact that this game still seeped into our lives despite my diligence not to expose my children to video games.

 
Truth was though that it already had seeped. My eldest had seen boys his age wearing T-shirts with angry looking cartoon birds on them. In primary once the teacher let my second oldest play angry birds on her cell phone.

And now here we were in art class at our local library and they were making darn angry birds.

But then, when the kids were done making them, they started playing them and boy what fun! And guess what, they were getting the thrill of a video game but they weren't playing a video game! The boys built towers and flipped their pom pom angry birds on spoons.



What a delight!

Real life games! No video needed. And finally I think they felt like they were part of a craze of their generation.

So now my mind is wandering....what other video games can we turn into parlor games?

Sunday, May 26, 2013

Welcoming

 
Things are coming together, by His grace. Southern Utah has been arms open wide welcoming and we are thriving in the red desert sun.
 
 
 Enjoying lunches at Real Foods, with gallons of raw milk to drink.
 
 
 
 
We marched against Monsanto to promote awareness of the dangers of genetically modified foods.
 
 
 
 Gen 1:12 And the earth brought forth grass, and herb yielding seed after his kind, and the tree yielding fruit, whose seed was in itself, after his kind: and God saw that it was good.
 
 
Lev 19:19 Ye shall keep my statutes. Thou shalt not let thy cattle gender with a diverse kind: thou shalt not sow thy field with mingled seed:
 
The amazing Sanctus Real played a concert at the college just a week or so after we got here! What a treat! Singing, laughing, shouting His name!
 
 
 
The summer heat is falling upon us as a kiss. The breezes are still cool, our smiles are wide, are hearts are full. The sand stone cliffs and red rock faces nestle around us. We walk rooted paths with family lines that stretch back deep. We are home.

Monday, February 11, 2013

Shrovetide!



Mix and pancake
Stir and pancake
Pop it in the pan
Pour a pancake
Flip a pancake
Catch it if you can!


Tomorrow is Shrove Tuesday or Shrovetide. You may know it as "Fat Tuesday" or "Mardi Gras." Shrovetide falls on the day before Ash Wednesday, the beginning of the forty day fast of Lent leading up to Easter. Traditionally people fasted from products like eggs and butter at this time so they used up all the eggs and butter in a frenzy of pancake making.

Having pancakes for dinner is a fun family activity to bring you out of the "everyday" and have a simple reason to come together and celebrate. Pancakes are so easily made that even very young children can participate in this activity and this is one simple meal that mom need not stress out about either.

 Tomorrow night my family will be making a variety of pancakes to eat, topped with ingredients like; organic maple syrup, yogurt and coconut sugar, lemon juice and powdered stevia, blueberries, etc. I encourage you to have a pancake feast of your own and join us here at Wise Glorious Purpose as we enter the Lenten season!



 


Once, 
Twice, 
Three times I give thee warning,
to make pancakes 'gain tomorrow mornin'!

Sprout Valentines made from Recycled Paper


In a bowl tare up some old scraps of paper


To that add beet juice, flour, water and seeds (we used bell pepper seeds) and form into a paste.


Place some of the paper paste in a heart shape mold on top of a paper bag


Continue until you have formed a desired amount of hearts


After the hearts have dried this is what you get. One side is pink, one is brown for writing on. When you place these in soil and keep them moist they will sprout your seeds!
 
 

Friday, February 1, 2013

Images from our Candlemas

This year we tried something new. We made our Candlemas candles for our Lenten garden. 





First we took an old clam shell container and filled it with dirt. We turned an old branch from our Christmas tree into a winter tree to place in the middle. We pushed depressions into the dirt and dropped wicks into the depressions and then filled the depressions with melted wax. 




Here is a look at our Lenten Garden from last year :)

Thursday, January 31, 2013

Urnaigh an Tighearna



The Lord's prayer, so beautiful, so comforting....

Starting this Monday and over the next six weeks until Saint Patrick's Day my family and I will be memorizing the Lord's prayer in Gaelic! Wont you join us? It's going to be so fun!

Ready? Get set. Here ya go...

Ar n-Athair a tha air nèamh, gu naomhaichear d'ainm.
Thigeadh do rìochachd. Dèanar do thoil air an talamh, mar a nìthear air nèamh.
Tabhair dhuinn an-diugh ar n-aran làitheil. Agus maith dhuinn ar fiachan, amhail a mhaitheas sinne dar luchd-fiach.
Agus na leig ann am buaireadh sinn; ach saor sinn o olc;
oir is leatsa an rìoghachd, agus an cumhachd, agus a' ghlòir, gu sìorraidh.
Amen. 

Ok, a bit overwhelming I know! 

Let's break it down phonetically and verse by verse for each of the next six weeks.

Week one

  arr NAH-hr uh thah air NEE-uv, guh NOO-veech-ehr DAH-nyim.

Week two

  HIK-ug daw REE-awchk. JEE-ah-nuh-r daw hawl air un TAH-luv, marr uh NEE-ehr air NEE-uv. 

Week three

 TARR GHOO-een un-DJOO arr NAH-run LAH-yel

Week four

 uh-gus mye GHOO-een arr FEE-uh-chn, AH-wil uh VYE-uss SHEE-nya darr LOOCHD-FEE-uh-ch.
  
 Week five

 uh-gus nah lyeek AH-oon um BOO-uh-rug sheen; ach soor sinn aw awlc; 

Week six

 awr iss LAHT-suh un REE-awchk, uh-gus un KOO-awchd, uh-gus uh GHLAWR, guh SHEE-uh-ree.
amen.

And if you still need help (like me) check out this adorable video on youtube to help you say it right :) 

Monday, January 28, 2013

Candlemas is Coming!



The days are dark but growing lighter as the sunrises I see from my bedroom window each morning -waking me with goldenrod, periwinkle and honeysuckle - come a little earlier each day.  

February 2 is Candlemas

also known as Imbolc,
                                   Imbolg,
                                            Bridig, Brigit, and the Feast of the Presentation of Jesus at the Temple.

Originally this holiday was of mostly Celtic and northern European origins. This was the time of year when the milk began flowing again after the birth of the baby goats. It was a time when the light was growing stronger and we celebrated the waxing sun as the light of spring becomes visible through the chill of winter.

In Ireland they celebrate Saint Brigid, the midwife and foster mother of Jesus Christ at this time of year. In the Eastern Orthodox Church this holiday is known as the Feast of the Presentation of Jesus at the Temple. In the gospel of Luke, chapter two we read the story of Joseph and Mary presenting the baby Jesus at the Temple 40 days after his birth, which was the custom at the time.

They offered two turtle doves and two young pigeons for a sacrifice. Simeon, the Righteous, assesses baby Jesus at this time and prophesieds of the redemption of the world brought forth by Christ. A prophetess named Anna also makes similar prophesies.

Saint Brigid became associated with this holiday when Christianity reached Ireland. Saint Brigid was the daughter of a pagan chief. She grew up to become one of the only female Bishops (or Abesses) of the early church.

She is called Brigid, Brigit, Bride,
                                            Abbess of Kildare,
                                                                midwife of Christ,
                                                                                      Mary of the Gael and Noamh Brid.


She founded a school for art and metal work during her life. She was tied into this holiday as the midwife of Jesus and foster mother of our Lord.

Her sacred flame is still tended in Kildare to this day.

Candlemas is a time of many things and can be celebrated many ways. It is a time when the ground is awakening after it's long winter's nap. It is a time of purification and renewal. Some people remove their Christmas decorations this day. Fire, candle making, sacred flames, bowls of fresh cream and milk, colors of red and orange as well as Brigid dolls made from straw are all festive and traditional ways to mark this day.

Here are some ideas of ways to celebrate this day.




                                                                  A visit to the Temple




Since Saint Brigid is associated with art we often do a  lot of painting on this day. Here are our fire paintings done with tumeric and red food coloring.


Here Nykki paints with the juice of a blood orange
 
 

Baby Ronan paints on his first Candlemas
 
 


We used our fire paintings to add quotes from Luke 2 to our nature table




She's not made of straw but here's a picture of a Brigid doll we made a few years back.
 
 
 

Candle lit dinner with homemade tomato soup

Creating center pieces with candles and herbs


 Our Candlemas center piece from three years ago. We collected all our candles we have used this year and bunched them together. The small white one in the middle was the vigil candle we got at Winter Solstice at the Spiral Dance. The flame we used to light it had come from Saint Brigid's sacred flame in Kildare! 
 
Scriptures to ponder...

"... a light to lighten the Gentiles, and the glory of thy people of Israel." Luke 2:32

"The thoughts of many hearts may be revealed." Luke 2:35

"...and the child grew, and waxed strong in the spirit, filled with wisdom: and the grace of God was upon him." Luke 2:40

Blessed Candlemas!
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